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#1085: Designated Driver

By the request of Holen.  A sequel to #438:  Drunken Record Store Shenanigans

 

RECORD STORE TALES #1085: Designated Driver

Once in a while, there would come a night when I was out with the wrong (or right!) influences.  Perhaps I wasn’t driving that night, and had a few rum and Cokes.  Captain Morgan’s spiced rum when available, Bacardi only when without options.  These were the rules!  One night I was drinking Caesars at a home party, and it was the last time touched Vodka in two whole decades.  I felt absolutely shit the next morning, like never before!  At that point, I really started to cut down on the drinking.  Now, I might have a beer once every couple years, only socially.  I drink a Caesar once a year on the front porch of the cottage.  It puts me straight to sleep.

In the Record Store days, I was usually the designated driver.  I was fine with that.  I didn’t mind being around intoxicated people.  I was easily entertained by their shenanigans, and I have the memories today to tell the stories.

One year, probably 1998, there was a house party at the Boss’ place.  He had a great back yard for parties.  I usually supplied the boom box.  There would be food, drink, and a couple of the guys would sneak behind the garage to smoke some weed.  One year, Dave “Homer” Holmes brought a couch, and why not?  Dare I say, why not.  The couch was the place to be that year.

1998’s party was the bomb as usual, but I couldn’t stay the whole night this time.  I was heading to the cottage very early the next morning with a friend.  I wasn’t willing to bend on that.  When you only have the cottage for a day and a half, you want to get there before lunch, that’s for sure.  So I made it clear, from the start, to my three passengers:  I am leaving at such-and-such a time.  (I can’t remember exactly, but let’s say 11:00 PM.)  I had a long drive ahead of me the next morning, I explained.  “Are you OK with this?” I asked.  “This means you’ll have to get a ride home with someone else, or leave with me at 11.  Got it?”  Everyone affirmative.  Getting a ride home with someone else wasn’t usually difficult, but if not, you know what?  Taxis and busses.  Either way:  I’m leaving at 11.

The only passenger whom I didn’t know well was the girlfriend of one of my friends.  She seemed OK to me.  I can’t remember her name.  Let’s call her Jane.  She had always been nice to me up to this point.  I’m sure you can guess that when the clock struck 11, she was the one who became a problem.

“Oh just stay another hour…it’s a great party!  Just stay,” she cajoled.  “Just another hour.  One more hour.”

OK.  One more hour.  I enjoyed myself as much as I could, but I was already concerned that one hour would turn into two, into three…

I’ll let you guess what happened next.

At midnight, I announced I was leaving, and if anyone wanted a ride, now was the time.  Jane was irritated by this.  “Why are you ruining this party?  We’re all having a good time, why do you want to ruin it?”

I could not believe what I was hearing.   I went to talk to my two friends alone.  “What the hell guys?  She’s treating me like a piece of shit, and you all knew I was leaving early!”  They were no use.  “Oh that’s just her.”

Needless to say, I wasn’t staying a minute longer.  I drove home, alone.

She broke up with my friend a few weeks later.  And that’s the end of her chapter!

 

 

#438: Drunken Record Store Shenanigans

SOME NAMES HAVE BEEN CHANGED TO PROTECT THE GUILTY

GETTING MORE TALE #438: Drunken Record Store Shenanigans

2001.  Annual Record Store Christmas party.  I was designated driver.

It was a great bash.  We almost always had great parties.  Great — but always safely.  I was driving an anonymous buddy home.  Getting my buddy out of the bar took some effort.  He ran into somebody at the bar, and I don’t even think they knew each other, but this guy claimed to know Steve Earle.  He told Buddy that he could get him back stage to meet Steve Earle next time he came into town.  Well, Buddy was excited beyond belief!  “I’m gonna meet Steve Earle!” he announced to me, and everyone else in the establishment!  “I’m gonna get to meet Steve Earle!”  It took about 15 minutes for me to drag his excited ass out of that place.

Into the parking lot on that snowy cold night.

“I can’t believe I’m gonna meet Steve Earle!”

In the car.

“I’m gonna meet Steve Earle man!”

I just had to laugh and wished I had a tape recorder.  His rant was about as hilarious as it gets, if you’re into drunken rants for the purpose of humour.

“Oh man…Steve EARLE!”

Then he decided to tell me that he approved of my new girlfriend, who also attended the party.

“That is a really nice girl and you hafta hang onto her,” he slurred.  “But when the light turns green you gotta GO.  And when it’s yellow you gotta go, or stop.  She’s a nice girl.”

I laughed and tried to egg him into saying more hilarious stuff, which was just repeating “I’m gonna meet Steve Earle,” and “when the light is yellow you gotta go.”

I dropped my buddy safely off at his home, where he tells me he passed out on the toilet talking to his girlfriend on the phone.  I’m sure she was also thrilled he was going to meet Steve Earle!

Not that I’m innocent in all this.  I usually chose to be designated driver, but not always.  One night my buddy drove me from a Record Store get-together.  The bartender had cut me off, because (apparently) I was loudly discussing different techniques to masturbate.  Allegedly!  So I am hardly one to throw stones at anyone.  I’m sure there are one or two people who have good Drunk LeBrain stories.  I know on my birthday, the Record Store people took me out for drinks and I proceeded to grab a bunch of dudes’ asses.

However, the truth is, I was usually the driver, and as such, usually have the best stories.  My memories are more reliable than those who were drinking.

I remember Buddy telling the Boss Man that he thought his mom was “hot”.  Buddy later denied this, saying, “I wouldn’t say that because I don’t think his mom is hot.”  But I know what I heard, and I was sober!

I remember Tom eating chicken bones at the Heuther Hotel, and then taking the rest home with him to make “soup”.  I remember one guy stealing ashtrays from the Heuther at a drunken party, and the Boss making him return the ashtrays to them the next week!

One of my fondest memories from that time happened one summer, after we had gathered for a concert at a place called the Banke in downtown Kitchener.  Exiting the venue, one of the guys decided to run into the middle of the street and do a Mick Jagger dance in front of the late-night traffic!  It was truly a sight to behold.  And it was also a pretty damn accurate dance.

Thankfully, nobody was ever hurt at one of our Record Store piss-ups.  We always made sure everybody had a ride.  They were a good time, a part of my youth I will always remember fondly and sometimes hazy!

LeBRAIN ON AIR BASS!


Circa 1997. That’s Iron Tom Sharpe peeking behind me.