RECORD STORE TALES #1142: A Top Five Birthday!

After you hit the big 50, it seems birthdays are less important and a little hum-drum.  My 52nd birthday fell on a Friday, so I decided to take advantage of that and have a little long weekend for myself.  My week ended on Thursday, which coincided with one of the boss’ birthdays at work.  He was turning 65, so we had a bit of an upscale lunch to celebrate both birthdays.  My coworkers and I enjoyed an afternoon at Milestones in Cambridge.  I had a delectable penne pasta with shrimp, mushrooms, bacon and a creamy truffle sauce.  The sauce was aromatic, and quite deliciously pungent.  It was almost more an experience of smell rather than taste, but I enjoyed it thoroughly.  A wonderful start to the birthday weekend.

Thursday night was an evening to chill.  I bought a Lego set, the Atreides Ornithopter set which will give me my first Jason Momoa, Oscar Isaac and Josh Brolin minifigs for my collection.  This difficult set kept my hands occupied while I enjoyed a traditional movie treat.  I went with 1984’s The Last Starfighter, a movie that I watched with Bob Schipper the summer it came out 40 years ago.  “Better than Star Wars!” I told my parents when I got home.  Watching it again today, it’s definitely derivative of Star Wars though able to deliver new things in a grounded Earthly setting.  I smiled the whole way through.

I couldn’t sleep that night.  We had water coming into the home office, and after the shelf disaster of three weeks ago, it kept me up at night.  I also slept on my arm in a way that pinched my nerves and left me with two numb fingers on my left hand.  Ah, 52.  But I had morning plans.

I wanted to head down to the Grand River at 6:00 am when nobody is around, and take the drone up.  With Jen at my side on second camera, we had a quick flight over the fog at sunrise and got some remarkable footage.  First birthday goal accomplished!

I wanted to do something special for my birthday meal, and so I chose a lunch instead of a dinner.  Why?  Because as you get older, bed time gets earlier.  I also wanted to do something different that we don’t usually do.  And so, Jen sucked up a Benadryl for me, and we hit up Ye’s Sushi.  There was plenty of stuff that Jen could eat, but an allergic reaction is impossible to avoid, so precautions were taken.  I really appreciated this sacrifice on her part.  Her favourite was the edamame, while mine was the beef short ribs.  For me, generally, beef won the show.   Dessert was deep fried banana with chocolate dip sauce.

Jen had to crash for a couple hours after the allergy meds kicked in, but she enjoyed her first sushi outing and I really appreciate her doing it.  Next year we’ll do something different, but this was a first for us and it was really special.

At that point, it was time to get ready for Grab A Stack of Rock at 3:30.  I warmed up my coffee and jumped in front of the camera.  I had originally thought of taking my birthday off from the show, but as the week wore on, I felt like I wanted to celebrate a bit with my friends.  So, I scheduled a show and Jex Russell, Tim Durling and John Clauser joined me for gifts and memories.  And much more.

All Jen’s gifts came from Encore Records in Kitchener.  They were:

Ratt – Rarities (2024)

A good compilation of demos and live stuff.  There’s a 1989 demo called “Love on the Rocks”, which is a Pearcy/Crosby composition that never made it onto an album.  Good song, and a CD that is hard to find.

Black Country Communion – V (2024)

I hear good things!  I am missing a few BCC releases, but there has never been a better time to jump back into the band.  I’m spinning it now and enjoying that bluesy rock groove with just a hint of Zeppelin that I love so much.

Prince and the Revolution – Live (2022)

From the Purple Rain tour, I figured this release would make a great accompaniment to my Purple Rain deluxe edition.  It will go well in the car on a future cottage trip.  Contents:  two CDs and a blu-ray, including favourites of mine like “Computer Blue” and “I Would Die 4 U” .  Closing the set is nearly 20 minutes of “Purple Rain”.  This will be epic!

The gifts were just a precursor to the main event, which caught me by surprise and knocked me out of my chair.  With the help with Tim Durling, Jex arranged special surprise birthday messages in a video that we ran live on the show.  I was blown away by the words and sentiments from so many people!

• • Jex Russell
  • John Clauser, performing an acoustic version of “Grab A Stack of Rock”
  • Rob Daniels from Visions in Sound, with some kind words that hit me in the heart
  • Aaron Stewart of the KMA
  • Harrison Kopp with Lego art
  • Uncle Meat with some comments that left me head over heels…
  • Martin Popoff with some more kind words that left my jaw on the floor
  • Dr. Kathryn Ladano (with Molli, Daisi, Winston and Bruce)
  • Grant Arthur from the Rock Warehaus with good advice
  • Metal Roger with metal vocals
  • Todd Evans of the Contrarians to grab a stack of cake
  • Tom Brislin, keyboard player from Kansas
  • Jen Ladano right from the bowling alley
  • D’Arcy Briggs from darcyska on YouTube!
  • Marco D’Auria with a funny name mix-up and more kind words that I don’t think I deserve
  • Brent “the Doctor” Doerner of Helix to grab a stack of beer
  • Steve Deluxe and some wise words about B-sides
  • Tim Durling, who helped connect some of these people with Jex
  • Peter Kerr of Rock Daydream Nation with a pretty excellent vocal performance
  • Chris Preston of MyRockandRollHeaven on Twitter
  • My Aunt Lynda and cousin Geoff with embarrassing stories
  • Matt Phillips of GoNorth Design, with a custom Lego Stratocaster
  • My mom and dad

By the end of it, I was emotionally exhausted…so much love and encouragement from people I really look up to.  The one common recurring thread was a message I really need to hear:  keep doing what you do.

What better birthday gift could anyone want?

The rest of the weekend will be spent enjoying music, and reflecting upon the blessings I have in my life.

I cannot thank you, my friends, enough for this very special birthday.  No matter how hard I try to search for the words, they remain out of my reach.  My words cannot sum up the feeling of a full heart.