RECORD STORE TALES #1113: Running Up That Hill
By and large, 1998 was a pretty good year for me. There was a lot going on musically with new albums by Iron Maiden and Van Halen (long awaited) coming out. In January I moved in with T-Rev, into this little basement apartment. It was a cool hang. We both managed record stores, and the apartment was right near mine. T-Rev had this “comfy couch” that was like kryptonite. You couldn’t help but surrender to the comfy couch. There were Christmas lights up all year round, and beaded entranceways. Movie posters adorned virtually every wall. He sought to make a place where gals and guys alike would want to come over and hang out. We were both single.
I had my fully loaded Nintendo 64 and a handful of great games like Goldeneye and Top Gear Rally. Our place was the place to be on a Friday night. It was frustrating when T-Rev’s skills exceeded mine in both games, but that’s how it went down! He was really, really good. He was working at finishing both games, I was lucky to have made it as far as I did. Friends of all kinds liked Nintendo 64 night on the comfy couch. Trevor usually had beer and a bag of chips.
Some time in May that year was a typical gathering at the T-Rev residence. The place was packed with people he worked with at the Waterloo Inn, including the woman that he would one day marry and is still his wife today! There was a girl that I was interested in but didn’t return the sentiment, and another girl who had a thing for me but was unreciprocated. I think the movie they chose to watch that night was Kama Sutra. I wasn’t into it, and on that night I felt like a third wheel (or ninth wheel perhaps).
I was never very good at talking to girls and today I wonder if I have some kind of actual mental malfunction. T-Rev would try to help me. “Don’t quote movies man,” he advised me. “Nobody gets it when you quote movies.” I guess my hope was that one day, somebody would get it, and I’d meet a new soul mate. However I tried to stick to Trevor’s advice and not quote Pulp Fiction lines at girls, hoping they too were fans of Samuel L. Jackson.
I seem to remember hurting my neck while washing my hair in the shower before the party, which was a common weakness of mine. The girl that was interested in me gave me a neck rub, but it didn’t feel good at all. I wasn’t able to relax. I may have two separate parties mixed up here – Kama Sutra and hurting my neck might not have been the same night – but these are the memories coming back about that basement apartment. One way or the other, at some time in the evening on May, I was feeling disconnected from everyone else. It was one of those times where I felt alone in a crowded room. I was lonely sitting there in that apartment with my thoughts, apart from the conversations surrounding me. I wanted some fresh air, and maybe also some company.
“Anyone wanna go for a walk? Anyone? No?”
Everyone was content to stay in. I put on my shoes and stepped out into the darkness of early evening.
We lived very close to Stanley Park Mall, which in turn is close to my old stomping grounds at St. Daniel School. In the winter time, the large hill behind the school was popular for tobogganing. In spring, I thought it might be a good place to catch a good view at the stars and surrounding city. And so, I crossed River Road, and wandered through the mall parking lot. Though it is all built over now, once upon a time just an empty field separated the mall parking lot and the hill.
The hill! That green, steep hill! Looking at it today, it seems so small but back then it seemed a mountain! Perhaps the pitter-patter of children has been flattening it over the decades, but then it seemed as tall as the sky. Located in Midland Park behind the school, it was home to so many childhood adventures. Technically it was not on school property and sometimes the teachers would get fed up with the kids, and ban the hill from recess activities. But what fun we had when it was allowed! Running up that hill, running down, imagining if we caught enough air we could take off and fly!
What would I find on that hill on this night in 1998? The view would be good at least, I was certain. There it was in front of me, and so I took off running up just as I did as a little kid! I may have been alone, but I smiled in glee as I flashed back to the golden carefree years.
Whew…running uphill wasn’t as easy at age 25 as it was at age 10! But up I went, and upon reaching the summit in that pitch black, I leapt upwards and landed on the bald, grass-free patch at the very top.
“HEY! WHAT THE FUCK ARE YOU DOING?” came a startled voice from the darkness.
Apparently, I had interrupted a couple in the middle of coitus! Let’s just say they must have been having a bangin’ good time.
What could I do? Without a word I just kept running down the opposite side! As if to say “I meant to do that,” Pee-Wee Herman style, I just kept running.
I eventually made my way around the block, and back to the basement apartment. That was enough walking for one night. When I returned and told my story, everyone laughed and the general consensus was that I should have expected it! I suppose they were right; that spot did have a reputation for make-out central for the teenagers in the early 80s.
That’s what I found when I went running up that hill. The lesson learned: never run uphill at night!